Try to isolate what is causing the issue. I used to play on a Vaio VGN-CR220E, which relies on DDR2 RAM. I recently upgraded to a desktop that has an FX-8320 with CrossFiredX R9 270Xs, but I definitely never crashed more than a few times a day on that laptop. I still use that laptop to play Mabi when I need an alt to do something for me that needs constant monitoring. (such as fishing)
In the last several days, the client on the laptop only crashed once or twice. It has only Abyss and Mod Sharker.
I can't seem to isolate the problem other than Abyss, I uninstalled that and I'm not having any issues as of right now. Playing music, going to Gator, doing pretty much ANYTHING would crash me at random times, and then login crashes would happen stupidly frequently afterwards. Without Abyss as of right now completely uninstalled from my mabi, I'm having no issues, but I hate the font so much.
I honestly don't know where I could possibly find the isolated issue other than Abyss. I updated Crackshield, and like I said I did a fresh Abyss and Mabi install yesterday and have crashed more than 20 times since the DDI update.
EDIT: I found the issue after reading (very very carefully, multiple times through) the crash advice. Skype freakout below
[7:11:34 PM] Me: I FIXED IT
[7:11:36 PM] Met: FOR THE MOST PART
[7:11:38 PM] Me: I THINK
[7:11:52 PM] Me: CHECK THIS OUT HOW freaking SIMPLE IT WAS
[7:11:55 PM] Me: sec puush
[7:16:15 PM] Me: very simple before and after
Before:
http://puu.sh/ner0Y.pngAfter:
http://puu.sh/neraL.png